1) General
Accepting rather than resisting whatever the moment brings is the first step. Then: “How could playing with this shift it for the better?” That gives birth to possibilities that would otherwise never exist. Your power to create your reality will amaze you!
2) Related to Gifted/2E
Lack of flexibility describes many gifted and 2E children. For parents of these children, playing with the moment when those moments are full on tornados is often impossible. The play is not fun play. Instead, it’s playing with possibilities – “What is this moment calling for from me to allow the storm to be no more and no less than it needs to be?”